By Peter Vajda, Ph.D

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Many of us long to be able to look our partner in the eye and say what's in our hearts, to be completely open, to be transparent. Many of us long for the intimacy that allows connecting without words, an intimacy that allows connecting with but a loving glance or a loving touch.

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Many of us long to be wrapped up within each other's heart and soul and not just caught up in the wrapping of our partner's "packaging."

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Do you see your relationship as a "problem to be solved", or as an adventure to embrace together?

Do you see conflict as a friend and opportunity for growth or connection, or as a pain in the butt?

Does your partner support your becoming "whole", or as someone who keeps you from being all that you can be…on every level?

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Do you recognize that your partner's bewildering behavior is a cry for your help, o do you see his or her behavior as an irritant that only results in your resistance or resentment?

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Do you and your partner honestly, sincerely and openly dream your dreams together?

Can you and your partner gently and lovingly hold one another's hand, or do you need to grasp on tightly and chain your partner's soul to your way of be-ing and do-ing?

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Do you accept your defeats with your head up and your eyes ahead with the grace of a woman or a man, or with the grief or resentment or begrudging of a child?

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Free Delivery FTD Florist Free Delivery for Online Orders. FTD Florist Satisfaction Guaranteed.On this Valentine's Day, how are you in relationship with your own heart? Can you look in the mirror at your own reflection and say: "I love you with all my heart; I am complete?" or do you "need someone else" to complete you?

Do cards, candy, and flowers create your sense of well-being, or can they simply the icing on the cake of a full, and complete heart, your own full and complete heart?

On this Valentine's Day, are you in relationship or in acquaintanceship? How do you know?

Perhaps, take some time and ask your heart where your heart is this Valentine's Day, and be still, and listen. What is your heart telling you?

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Peter G. Vajda, Ph.D, is co-founder of SpiritHeart, an Atlanta, GA firm specializing in coaching, counseling and facilitating. Peter's expertise focuses on personal, business and relationship coaching. He is a professional speaker and published author. For more information about his services, email Peter at pvajda@spiritheart.net